2026-10-29 11:08 UTC
kinda unfortunately yeah.
swipes suck cuz one judges people based on images and text, bars and partys suck because, cold approach feels so weird, and asking the one woman thats already feels somewhat close feels odd
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@cRazi_man@europe.pub 2026-10-29 11:47
Real talk though: the whole process fucking sucks. People want to find someone, but there’s societal conventions, it takes a shit load of courage, don’t want to male anyone else uncomfortable either and how do you even find a good match? If anything happens to my marriage then I have no interest in jumping into this process. A friend has been going through this for years including a bad breakup recently after a short relationship… I got nothing to offer to make it better 🤷♂️
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@captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2026-10-30 16:52
Talking to people at bars and parties is a skill you can get better at, though part of getting better at it is learning your way through the awkwardness