Real talk though: the whole process fucking sucks. People want to find someone, but there’s societal conventions, it takes a shit load of courage, don’t want to male anyone else uncomfortable either and how do you even find a good match? If anything happens to my marriage then I have no interest in jumping into this process. A friend has been going through this for years including a bad breakup recently after a short relationship… I got nothing to offer to make it better 🤷‍♂️