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19 posts · Last used Sep 16

The feeling when, after a year and a half, you can finally look at your ex from the outside and watch him manipulate his current girlfriend in exactly the same way, using exactly the same tricks he used on me. When we got together, I never wanted to be famous, or even to write publicly at all. Since he had a Telegram channel, after a while he convinced me to start one too and post there. He didn’t force me. I just felt a little suppressed without it. And there it is, happening again a year and a half later, with the next victim. When I met him, I was fragile, awkward, and at one of the lowest points of my life emotionally. It's no coincidence that he keeps going after people like that. And there it is, a year and a half later, and nothing has changed. The only difference is that I've grown stronger since then and I'm comfortable with myself now. His current victim won't be for quite some time. When I first met him, he contacted me every single day. Day and night. The love bombing was beyond anything you could imagine. Then, three months later, that changed when, right after my mother died, he immediately went away for two days to a grill party. His current victim hasn't experienced that yet... Or at least we don't know. She will nonetheless. And I could go on. The worst part is that I'm silently watching all of this happen and I can't say a word. Because seriously, what would it look like if I warned the girl? I'm not going to. Nobody warned me either. Of course, that doesn't mean I have to behave the same way. But in situations like this, I think the best thing is for everyone to learn from their own mistakes. #psichology #relationship #manipulation #ex #emotions #feelings
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Logically, one of these things must be true. Use 4 and reply if you have another answer. Unhelpful comedic answers enthusiastically accepted; please boost for reach. Ok let me have it. #relationship #advice #IdonotUnderstandBeingHuman #PossibleAlien

Logically, one of these things must be true. Use 4 and reply if you have another answer. Unhelpful comedic answers enthusiastically accepted; please boost for reach. Ok let me have it. #relationship #advice #IdonotUnderstandBeingHuman #PossibleAlien

All men are assholes (Statistically impossible) 21%
All men I meet are assholes (Highly improbable) 21%
Something about me turns normal men into assholes 7%
It's cool; I got you. This-----> 50%

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Today is "confess ur secret crushes" day! Which one is u? (Bonus if u share the tea!) #PolyAmory #Relationship #Crushes #Silly #NSFW #Confession #Confessions

Today is "confess ur secret crushes" day! Which one is u? (Bonus if u share the tea!) #PolyAmory #Relationship #Crushes #Silly #NSFW #Confession #Confessions

I don't have a secret crush! 20%
I definitely have a secret crush. 20%
I'm not sure if i have a secret crush yet! 16%
I have LOTS of secret crushes!! 44%

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A quotation from La Rochefoucauld Absence weakens ordinary passions, but inflames great ones, as the wind extinguishes a candle, but fans a fire.   [L’absence diminue les médiocres passions, et augmente les grandes, comme le vent éteint les bougies et allume le feu.] François VI, duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-1680) French epigrammatist, memoirist, noble Réflexions ou sentences et maximes morales [Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims], ¶276 (1665-1678) [tr. Stevens (1939)] More about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/la-rochefoucauld-fra… #quote #quotes #quotation #qotd #larochefoucuald #absence #apart #fire #flames #love #passion #relationship #separation
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