How to irritate people - being queer: Q: "Why is your gender so important to you?" A: "It is not. It is important to you. You are the people who want to label me as a man or a woman. I do not want that. So why is it so important to you?" "I don't think men (meaning AMAB people) should wear skirts" "Why?" "Cause men don't do that" "Is there some kind of natural law that prohibits 'men' from wearing skirts or other clothes mostly associated with women? And who defines which clothes men or women should wear? And what about trans and non-binary people" "But you want to provoke people, don't you?" "No, I just want to be pretty"