@JuliusGoat@mastodon.social These young men are willing to change themselves to gain the approval of patriarchal misogynistic men, but are un-willing to change themselves to gain the approval of women. Then these young men blame women for not being attracted to them, even though the men have done *nothing* to make themselves attractive to women. These young men have *chosen* to sabotage themselves, to make themselves more appealing to misogynistic men than to women.