If your wife or girlfriend works - the only thing that stops some dude at her workplace from fucking her is he hasn't tried. She is accidentally pair bonding to someone there because she spends more time with him than with you. Doesn't matter if you see none of those guys are good-looking. I have worked with women who became into me. Those same women would never swipe yes on me if I was a profile on an app. Hanging out with someone every day doing the same thing is powerful.