nono u gotta do it a bit nicer. like u wanna approach this kinda more slowly ~ like going very light to start with, darting around a bit. “take it” sounds like its just full intensity without the magical bits n pieces. but truly, medium intensity with wonderfully tender buildup and care is so much nicer. u know? feeling safe enough to struggle more, to violently shake ur head cuz they know u just do that and to maybe have some nice petting going on while things are happening. thats what does it I believe. maybe some “yeahyi knowyi know baby, you can go, its okay, I’m here” maybe would be… nice