@ShadowOfMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2026-11-01 21:55 UTC
Replies (11)
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@deHaga@feddit.uk 2026-11-02 00:06
My dad used to call it ‘talking to god on the big white telephone’
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@SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 2026-11-02 03:23
See the Republicans don’t want you to get home safe when you are drunk
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@morto@piefed.social 2026-11-02 03:26
It’s bizarre to think that in some ways, discrimination and prejudice have been getting worse in our society
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@halcyoncmdr@piefed.social 2026-11-02 01:31
Only predators go around thinking about attacking someone in a restroom. They’re self reporting, and we need to publicly call them out for it.
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@BellyPurpledGerbil@sh.itjust.works 2026-11-02 06:57
I’m not in public bathrooms or at parties all that often cuz I’m a nerdy homebody. But I’m the transwoman who has pads in my purse that I don’t need just in case someone else does. With pain relieving medication, of course. I keep a heating pad with me in the trunk of my car in case someone at work needs it. Got to save someone’s day about three times with it! Extra hair ties and scrunchies, safety pins, gum, and so much more in my purse at all times. Now I keep a few sewing supplies in my purse just in case someone tears a hole in their clothes. Learned how to sew during COVID19 Ladies I fucking got you, because I know you got me. Have cried in a few bathrooms and been comforted. So many compliments on my hair. When I’m doing makeup nobody stares or makes me feel embarrassed. We’re sisters no matter where we are.
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@NaviSaysListen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-02 06:58
I’m not in public bathrooms or at parties all that often cuz I’m a nerdy homebody. But I’m the transwoman who has pads in my purse that I don’t need just in case someone else does. With pain relieving medication, of course. I keep a heating pad with me in the trunk of my car in case someone at work needs it. Got to save someone’s day about three times with it! Extra hair ties and scrunchies, safety pins, gum, and so much more in my purse at all times. Now I keep a few sewing supplies in my purse just in case someone tears a hole in their clothes. Learned how to sew during COVID19 Ladies I fucking got you, because I know you got me. Have cried in a few bathrooms and been comforted. So many compliments on my hair. When I’m doing makeup nobody stares or makes me feel embarrassed. We’re sisters no matter where we are.
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@explodicle@sh.itjust.works 2026-11-02 15:08
How does one even know if they’re sharing a bathroom with a trans person? This looks like a toupee fallacy.
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@captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2026-11-02 15:48
You always need a few women at the bar that understand the importance of being the mom, and once I left my “drunken shitshow” stage that I was in early in transition I started leaning into the bar mom role when it’s needed. Someone’s gotta keep an eye on the wasted girl’s drink. Someone’s gotta offer a hand. And sometimes someone’s gotta distract the way too drunk girl while someone also pours out her drink because she probably shouldn’t have been served that one. Someone’s gotta listen to the girl going through some shit, because the booze won’t help, but community can (though be aware some of these people have way too big of issues and will try to latch on in a destructive way, learn to establish and maintain boundaries). I don’t do it that often, because the gay bars I go to don’t need it that much, but I take pride in the fact that I do it. And baby trans folks especially need someone like that.
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@alapakala@quokk.au 2026-11-02 03:37
and we keep getting gentrified 😭
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@SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 2026-11-02 12:41
Do you know whom I want to share the bathroom win? Nobody! Because I want to poop in peace and solitude! 😭 Besides that, I’d rather have all the trans people in the world there than one single hypocrite pedo enabler “christian”.
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@SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-02 21:52
The women in the 80s that were afraid of trans women and drag queens may have been victims of abuse of cis women, and the homophobic and misogynistic cis men pushing fear and hate as propaganda. Like I seriously question if there was EVER a justified fear of non-passing trans women in women’s restrooms. Because at this point, it seems like it was cis men the whole time and all of this has ALWAYS been unjustified scapegoating by fearmongering us.