There's a saying - I think it came from one of Colleen McCullough's excellent novels on the Roman Republic - where the victor and his opponent met. And when the defeated man offered a handshake, the victor said "If I were to give you my hand, what would I have to offer my friends?" I love that for Rama-swampy. https://www.newsweek.com/vivek-ramaswamys-concession-to-amy-acton-went-to-voicemail-12660888