After my father-in-law's memorial service, we traveled to LA for a second one. Put together a lovely slideshow. Wrote two eulogies. Successfully voided a contract for a $19,995 plot for his urn and selected a prettier and far less expensive space. Handled dinners and flowers. And my kid played a song on the French horn. Completely nerve-wracking, but he did great. And then, we did what we do after funerals in LA. We went to amusement parks. We had a great time. A really crappy month overall, but a good three days.