@AnAutieAtUni@beige.party @autistics@fedigroups.social I don’t think it has to do with my AuDHD but I can‘t cope with anyone coming by unannounced 😭 I just got an intense anxiety spike because someone was coming over to buy a used electronic item and they came inside to see if the device works 🥲 In my family there often was mess, and some people could be qualified as hoarders in hindsight, so „people coming over“ is a huge trigger! I‘m working on it but have been known to do day-long anxiety-fuelled deep-cleanses before receiving visitors, often resulting in a meltdown. I wish I could just not care!