Before heading off on fedibreak again, I will leave you with some reading material from the inestimable @Impossible_PhD Feel free to read and discuss while I am gone, and I will join in with my thoughts upon my return. Enjoy your day! https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/awkward-feelings PS: yes, we all know about substack. if you don’t like the site, don’t read the article.