Post by @nat@kind.social

2026-03-09 18:41 UTC

I&#39;ve been trying to hold back from correcting my ex&#39;s lies about me, and focusing on court. But the way he twists the narrative to victimize himself &amp; fundraise thousands of dollars to abuse me &amp; our child is never not appalling. In past posts he&#39;s used the passive voice to relay that &quot;cops were called,&quot; but failed to specify that cops were called *by him* because he had baseless accusations to make about me or someone else. Today I called for a civil standby for the exchange.

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@nat@kind.social 2026-03-09 18:44

I did not want to have to involve the cops. I avoided doing so when the temporary DVPO was served; Alan used this to claim that he was threatened and illegally evicted by the "DSA" and continues to heavily harass the good friend of mine who served the papers. I also suggested doing custody exchanges at a park, which Alan rejected. He suggested a police station instead. He escalated one exchange by calling the cops and claiming that my friend was harassing him.

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@YKantRachelRead@social.treehouse.systems 2026-03-09 18:52

@nat his trying to collapse the narrative down to "a Black dad versus a Karen," thus snatching the mantle of victimhood from the innumerable Black parents who do face violence at the hands of a white-supremacist "justice" and legal system, is fucking disgusting. like, dude, you're the one weaponizing that system along male-supremacist lines.

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@starlily@mastodon.social 2026-03-09 18:59

@nat It is telling to me that while you use his name, he calls you names. I dont have to see more to understand whats happening here. Wishing you luck!

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@Pinchy63@ottawa.place 2026-03-28 20:10

@nat I read his diatribe the other day. He sure plays the victim well. Sorry you’re going through this. 🫂

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