Post by @alexandra@social.lol

2026-07-23 15:47 UTC

@sarajw@front-end.social I guess it's like being at a crowded party where you kind of know all the guess in passing but don't always get to interact with them all, certainly not on a daily basis. That's okay. I think we all know what works best for us and, hopefully, how to balance all the noise. I worry sometimes if I'm busy elsewhere people will think I'm ignoring them as I'm usually very chatty. I'm sure that's just me. @bendaubney@social.lol @hl@social.lol @andycarolan@social.lol @purplelime@social.lol

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@sarajw@front-end.social 2026-07-23 15:53

@alexandra@social.lol yeah I think of it a little like a pub or bar (not necessarily including alcohol, any kind of social club) where I'm not there every day or night, but I know there's good people and chat when I am there :) @bendaubney@social.lol @hl@social.lol @andycarolan@social.lol @purplelime@social.lol

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@purplelime@social.lol 2026-07-23 18:48

@alexandra@social.lol yes I sometimes worry about taking a while to respond or worse still missing replies if I haven’t checked my feed for a while, but the people here are so chill that I doubt they’d even think “so what’s taking her so long?”. And I certainly never think that if someone hasn’t replied to me immediately. Since moving to social.lol I’ve had more followers/followed more from this instance and there’s generally about 60+ overnight toots to read over breakfast but it’s a lovely part of the day. @sarajw@front-end.social @bendaubney@social.lol @hl@social.lol @andycarolan@social.lol

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