Let me put this way then: the human psyche tends to be reflexive and defensive; people naturally push back if they find themselves being called on their words. The distancing social media allows, also allows for people to engage with the worst parts of themselves. It’s extremely hard to find a person that has grown enough to be beyond that impulse of self defence. I did not state people can not change. What I did state was that social media is not the stage to do that, as it enables the worst traits of people to surface.