@Squirrelanna@lemmy.blahaj.zone
2026-11-01 21:43 UTC
That’s pretty messed up to me. We don’t need to be rape-jacketing D/s dynamics like this. There’s no reason to assume this was a negative experience.
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@DeadDigger@lemmy.zip 2026-11-02 01:22
Well I try to assume the best of everyone, so I would also assume that this was a positive experience. However this does not invalidate my post. Something can be positive and still against consent or negative but under consent. For me this is not about invalidating BDSM dynamics, I life in a pretty happy one myself. it is about awareness that stuff like this should be discussed and can have a negative impact on the dynamic if it is not.