So many of these things are things I learned to cope with already but called it different things. This is the "car salesperson" scenario. I will meet people half way (or more!) everytime. I have learned that people will (consciously or not) take advantage of that. So i meet halfway and then proceed to keep meeting halfway until I am basically at where THE OTHER starts from. The canonical example of this (for me) is a car salesperson so that's why i call it that. (or maybe that's where I came up with it.) Anyways. NOW when i interact, I first have to judge whether they are "a car salesman". If not then I proceed to act in good faith and move across the room (figuratively) to meet them. If they are (a car salesperson) then I start holding my cards to my chest. This has caused people to get mad at me, because basically they see me as a mirror acting like them. I am not perfect so I do try to be kind about it.