Oh boy... So I had a bunch of new clothes come in, and I told my wife... partner... roommate? I don't know the right term for "the person I am married to on paper, but our relationship drifted and there is no more intimacy, but we still love and care about each other" is... But her, I told her I had new clothes and was going to do a fashion show when she got home from the weekend with the dude she is seeing. But he is going to be there too and they are looking forward to it. Big scaries at having to be myself in front of others.... It is something I have been wanting to do more and more, and he has seen me in "girl mode" before, but still scary to think about being that vulnerable with other people