@LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
2026-11-05 05:50 UTC
Replies (22)
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@uKale@lemmy.world 2026-11-05 06:12
No blades near anyones vagina unless it needs surgery seems like a good general rule.
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@DataCrime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-11-05 06:14
Always my favorite. Easy to eat, easy to fuck… kind of a pain to maintain, but if I’m being honest, I enjoy shaving 'em too.
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@kettuli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-05 06:15
Feels excessive, more of a product of patriarchy like all shaving, except worse.
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@wezzzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-05 06:40
I dislike it it is a harmfull thing to do for your health the hair is there for a reason but there are ofc reasons(even tho a load of the reasons boil down to pariarcy standerts) you might want to shave youre vagina :)
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@meat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-05 07:11
Some people like shaving their vulvas, and that’s fine. Personally, I think it’s too much work, rarely looks better, and is uncomfortable.
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@neuracnu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-05 07:25
if you like, just make sure your estheticians are well-compensated
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@applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-05 07:40
apparently an unpopular opinion here but bare vaginas are my favorite. not shaved necessarily because shaving is kinda the worst way to remove any hair but especially in such a sensitive area. it usually results in razor bumps, ingrown hairs, and pokey stubble no matter how well you shave. anyway my reasons are a little atypical since its not really about aesthetics for me. being gay i like to do lots of things with vaginas, and being autistic i find i have some sensory issues around hair, especially in my mouth. sooo i tend to prefer bare vaginas. as for myself im lasering my pubes off and it would be fantastic if shaving became unnecessary at some point.
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@diablicja@lemmy.zip 2026-11-05 08:07
I prefer to be shaved because hair retains smell and I started to sweat excessively as I age. Much easier to stay fresh without hair there, same reason I shave my pits all year round. Also, I like when my husband is freshly shaved when I go down on him and I suspect the reverse is true too. In general, I think if you receive oral, it’s inconsiderate to not, at least, trim (ymmv). Other than that, if you’re young, fit, and your privates don’t smell funky in the evening, I don’t see a reason to do anything about the hair there.
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@waterwasamistake@lemmy.zip 2026-11-05 08:18
Personally i have them trimmed, i find it extremly uncomfortable when they reach a certain length, like they tangle and it almost hurts and gets itchy which is weird. Also i can’t stress enough how disgusted i am by wet hair while getting eaten out, that sensation is just the worst. Sometimes i shave them off completely for sexy times, my boyfriend does not care that much day to day but is very excited about hairless vulva now and than. In general i would like to not have everything about my body being political, i don’t want people to tell clean shaven women they are attracting pedophiles and hairy women that they only do it to make some kind of feminist statement. People like differnt things for personal non political or evil reasons and while we are obviously all influenced by our cultures and media, there is a time and place to discuss beautystandards, its not in the pants of individual women.
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@lasta@piefed.world 2026-11-05 08:38
I prefer the hairless look but don’t think anyone’s personal preferences should be imposed on others.
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@kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-11-05 18:09
If there’s hair growing in or on your vagina, you should discuss that with your doctor. Shaved vulvas, on the other hand, are a matter of preference. I’m personally a pretty big fan of vulvas in general, but shaved ones tend to be lower on the list than others.
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@Malica@lemmy.zip 2026-11-05 19:52
I’ve got the Demi Moore bush going on, so I shave, but I hate the razor burn and the itching.
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@Beth@piefed.social 2026-11-05 20:13
I don’t need anyone else’s thoughts on what I do with my parts I suppose. That’s pretty much all I think about it. Because what I do down there (or do not do) is my preference only.
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@Drusas@fedia.io 2026-11-05 22:10
The vagina is the internal part.
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@dkppunk@piefed.social 2026-11-05 22:31
I believe anyone should be able to do whatever they want with their pubes. For myself? I fucking hate it. The razor burn, the second day stubble, the ingrown hair, just no. My skin is highly sensitive, so when the stubble starts coming in, it desensitizes my bits and I have a lot of difficulty trying to orgasm, like it gets so irritated to the point that it’s sometimes impossible for me to orgasm. It’s just awful, I have clippers to trim if it gets long, but no to full shave. For the ladies I occasionally hook up with, I’d still prefer not full shave and just trimmed, but I’m not going to tell someone else what to do with their body. And if we are otherwise cool and consenting, I’ll still hook up with someone who chooses to shave.
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@doomsdayrs@lemmy.ml 2026-11-06 00:48
I like trimming, not shaving. There is a point where it gets scratchy and distracting, and makes it hard for bedroom activities. ✂️✂️
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@7empest@beehaw.org 2026-11-06 01:12
Lasered, so that I could have a tattoo there.
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@KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2026-11-06 14:48
I lasered mine, which I guess answers that. And honestly, when I go down on another woman, I prefer there to be less hair, but shaving sucks for that because the short hairs chafe your face like a mofo.
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@GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 2026-11-06 19:05
Painful. So not worth it.
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@stopforgettingit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-11-06 20:59
I prefer mine shaved completely bald. But I get the worse ingrowns I can’t, so I just keep it trimmed.
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@blkvvvs@lemmy.zip 2026-11-06 23:00
Trimmed works best for me. Those ingrowns are awful.
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@swelter_spark@reddthat.com 2026-11-07 07:05
I like a little padding between skin and clothes, and hair provides that. But, beyond a little bit, it seems to get dirty faster.